Now it's the end of July, in the middle of winter in Australia. It seems that the rain doesn't want to stop at all.
So some of my female clients were complaining about the weather, complaining about why this is not the right time of the year to meet more men. But in fact, you can meet more men at any time of the year, even if the weather is miserable like this. In this article, I'm going to explain how it's done.
As long as it's not raining cats and dogs, you don't really need to go out with an umbrella. Going out without an umbrella gives you many more opportunities to meet men immediately:
You leave your office building for lunch without an umbrella, and it's raining. So you can ask the man next to you, "Can I share the umbrella with you?"
He won't say no. (If he really says no, you immediately know he is not a gentleman, so that's a good filter!) - By the way, I tried this technique myself, the results are amazing!
Now you can walk with him under his umbrella, and this gives you two major opportunities:
1. The fact that you asked for his help meets his needs to provide and protect (these two needs are men's basic instincts). Therefore, you are showing him your femininity, which is very attractive and very important, and it doesn't mean you are weak (this has been further explained in my book).
2. You will naturally have lunch with him in the same restaurant or coffee shop, because you are already walking together under the same umbrella. This gives you more time to have a conversation with him, and see if he is the right person for you!
You don't look needy; you just would like to have some help which gives him an opportunity to feel like a hero and gives you an opportunity to see if he is the right guy.
A bonus benefit: Since you meet him on the doorstep of your office building, it's quite likely that he also works near here (probably in the same office building). So when you are having lunch with him, you two will discuss your work and his work (and will probably find out both of you work in the same area or the same office building), then if you are interested in seeing him again, you can easily plant the seed of catching up with him again by saying something like "Thank you for recommending the lunch here. By the way, I really like XYZ coffee shop in ABC street. Maybe tomorrow/later this week I should show you which coffee is the best over there, because it's REALLY good." When you say the coffee over there is really good, make sure you actually mean it, because if he wants to see you again, it's very likely for him to say he would like to have lunch with you at XYZ coffee shop recommended by you! Yes, if he likes you, he will see this as an opportunity to go out with you soon.
And remember: men fall in love a lot faster than women!